Come from the Yo of Chinese prepotent actor that held a few days ago to learn the information of annual meeting, the children that China has 20% about at present appears depressed symptom, psychologist thinks this is planted depressed the country in ascribing to above all grows female to its singleton exorbitant expectation and beyond the mark attention, the child that is in this kind of negative effect for a long time to fall appears more easily psychological problem or action are unusual.

Concerned expert considers to show, the parent education means of 70% is unqualified, among them 30% it is undue protection, 30% it is to be supervised overly, the parent that still has 10% is severe punishment. The result that these unqualified education means bring is teenage bear the ability of the setback is poor, get used to ability to differ.

For this, concerned expert puts forward " cradle actively " the parent teachs a concept: Above all, ought to create to make him feel safe for the child and the environment that always is full of interest; Next, parents ought to accept a kind of positive response cradle means, often encourage the child, give positive response to their behavior, much take a moment and they chat and amuse oneself; Again, an effective and fair discipline principle, and it is very important also to build the reasonable expectation on child ability foundation to be worth.

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